“Nothing is more exhilarating than to dance through life recognizing that the Universe is there to yield to you whatever you want whenever you want it.” – Abraham-Hicks
It’s the WHAT – Not the HOW! Have you decided what you want? Are you crystal clear about what you want to be or do or have? Once you decide WHAT you want, your job is complete. You don’t have to figure out the HOW, the WHEN, the WHERE, or the WHO.
There’s a nice division of labor here. Your job is the WHAT part – deciding what you want and placing your order. The Law of Attraction will handle all the details – the HOW part. In fact, it’s best to get out of the way and let this universal law do its job. Decide – then turn it over to the Universe. With the Law of Attraction on your team, you no longer need to drive yourself crazy figuring out how to accomplish your goals. Your job is simply to focus on WHAT you want, take whatever action you’re inspired to take, and allow it to happen.
I was thrilled to see this principle presented in a recent production of Cinderella. When her Fairy Godmother appears and tells Cinderella that her wish has come true and she WILL be attending the ball, does she rejoice? No, she does not! She goes straight into worry mode about the HOW’s. She thinks of problems – no dress to wear, no coach to ride in, etc. Ah, but Cinderella’s Fairy Godmother is wise and encourages her to stop worrying and start visualizing the most gorgeous gown and the most elegant coach she can imagine (the WHAT part) and let go of the details of HOW it will all come together. And, as we know, it works out like magic!
Out of the Mouths of Babes. A four-year old actually helped me learn the extremely valuable lesson of focusing on WHAT – not HOW. Years ago I was teaching a friend how to drive a car and her four-year old daughter, Melissa, was riding in the back seat. About 15 minutes into our driving lesson, the little sweetheart began a barrage of “Happy Meal! Happy Meal! Happy Meal!” She had placed her order and was absolutely not giving up. So, naturally, we drove to the nearest McDonalds and got her a Happy Meal.
The Universe is similarly persuaded by our single-minded determination. Melissa had no resistance. She never considered that maybe she didn’t deserve a Happy Meal or that it was an inconvenient time or that she was asking for too much. She had no power to get herself to McDonalds and no money to buy anything even if she got there. She was not concerned with HOW it was going to happen. She had all she needed – her strong desire and her clear focus on WHAT she wanted. She simply wanted it and kept making her desires known (loudly and insistently, I might add) until she was happily munching away and playing with her new toy.
I have learned from the purity of Melissa’s request that, by deciding WHAT I want and focusing on it clearly and unequivocally without getting caught up in HOW it’s going to happen, I become a vibrational match to my desires and they manifest quickly and easily.
Hey, I Said What I Want. Isn’t it nice to know that the Universe is supporting you in the fulfillment of your desires! Don’t you love realizing that the Universe is arranging the details of HOW the circumstances and events will line up for you! The pieces will all fall into place perfectly as you stop thinking about HOW to make it happen and, instead, stay focused on WHAT you desire.
My friend, Thomas, completely gets this. His philosophy is – “Hey, I said what I want.” He merely sets his intention and confidently adds – “It’s not MY job to make it happen.” And he’s right! It’s not his job to make it happen any more than, after ordering your dinner in a restaurant, you get up and go out to the kitchen to prepare it. It’s the same with placing your order at the Cosmic Café. Let the Cosmic chefs do their magic and stay out of their way. Decide WHAT you want and allow your Fairy Godmother – the Law of Attraction – to make it happen for you!
Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire and Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com
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